Adoption Update


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So I’ve shared all of the how-we-got-here details of this story but have said basically nothing about the where-we-go-from-here details. Which is partially because we don’t have all the particulars yet. From what I can understand this is pretty typical for the adoption process. However, I’ll share with you what we DO know.

The children are biological siblings, a brother and sister. She just turned 5 and he just turned 3. They have been at the orphanage for about 8 months.

If all goes according to plan, Josh and I will be headed to Entebbe, Uganda in the month of June. We don’t have specific travel dates yet, but this general time frame seems pretty certain.

When we go, we’ll be staying in Uganda for anywhere from 3 to 4 weeks to sort out all of the details, appear before a judge, gain custody, etc. We will get the kids when we arrive and they will stay with us in a guest house for the duration of our visit.

In God’s sovereign goodness, this happens to be the year that my husband, Josh, has his sabbatical. Our church is SO good to its pastors, and provides a 2 month period of extended rest from daily ministry demands every 7 years. While we had planned to travel quite a bit during this time, God had a better plan, and we will have 2 months to adjust to our new family life, beginning with our trip to Uganda.

How can you help?

I have been blessed beyond words by the outpouring of encouragement and support we’ve received from our family and friends over the past several months. Almost everyone I’ve shared this story with, once they’ve exhausted their questions, has asked “How can I help?” God has been meeting our needs left and right in some pretty amazing ways. However, here are the two main ways you can help, if you are so inclined 🙂

You can pray. Pray, pray, pray. God can do “abundantly more than we can ask or even imagine,” and I really do believe that this is the most important thing to be done in the coming months. Some specific prayer requests…
+Pray for the children we are to adopt. They are still in the orphanage, and we ask God to protect and care for them as we wait to go get them.
+Pray for the other orphans and the two women who tirelessly care for them all. There are more than 20 children at this orphanage, and they ALL need homes, parents, love and affection.
+Pray for our family as we prepare for this. The girls are excited, although their understanding is obviously limited, but I’m sure that the time we are gone will be very hard on them (they miss me when I go take a shower, soooo….) When Josh and I go over there, they will be staying with family. Pray for my parents and brothers and their wives, Josh’s parents and his sister, who will be sharing the bulk of the burden while we are gone.
+Pray for the transition. When you are about to have a baby, there is no way to know how things will go. Will the baby be colicky? Will the baby sleep and eat well? Will the baby have allergies? As the baby grows, what will his/her personality be like? The unanswered questions we have going into this are similar. But what DO you know about that unborn baby? I will love him. I will love her. The same is true for these children. We don’t know what to expect of the transition, but we are trusting God to be working in and through it as we love them.

You can give financially. Again, God was sovereign and gracious in that we were able to cover the initial, up-front costs of the adoption with inheritance money we recently received. However, we are trying to raise the rest so that we can come out of this process debt free. We have already received many generous gifts from some loving and supportive friends, and are about halfway to our goal. If you’d like to give, you can use the pay-pal account linked on the right hand column of this website.

And can I ask you to do something else if you are reading this? It’s kind of scary. It will make you uncomfortable. But I’m asking anyway.

Ask God how He wants YOU to care for the orphans of this world. This looks different for everyone, but I think orphan care is for every Christian to consider. Maybe that just means you pray for and support us or another family who is adopting. Maybe it means you get involved in supporting an orphanage. Maybe it means fostering. And maybe, just maybe, He’ll call you to make some orphans your forever children, too.

Josh and I know that we could have kept the details of this experience to ourselves. We could have figured everything out on our own. But 1) We don’t think that’s the way it works in the church, and 2) We want our story to inspire others to consider doing the same.

So, that’s how you can help, and I promise, as soon as I know more, you will know more!

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